Use Your Imagination
I’ve just read an article in New Woman in which a woman argues that as soon as the thought of sex with someone else enters your head, you’re cheating. Now I’m sorry, but wtf?!?! That means I’ve cheated on Him so far about…. Hmmm… probably about 1000 times in the last three years. Now I think we’d all agree that’s impressive.
Thinking about sex with someone else isn’t cheating. If that was the case, men would be cheating on their wives/girlfriends/boyfriends about 100 times a day (women slightly less, but still…)! If you can’t have the odd moment of fantasy while glancing a handsome stranger, then what did God give us imaginations for?
I’ve often heard it argued by psychologists that an active fantasy life is actually the best way to avoid cheating, and a healthy thing to pursue. After all, what harm is there in it? If this was really cheating, surely girls would chuck their boyfriends for daring to buy a copy of FHM… or for walking down the road with their eyes open… or for having any form of sentient thought…
So please, in the name of all that is sensible and sane, don’t take away the purity of my occasional fantasy of Vince Vaughan tying my wrists to the bedstead and passionately beginning to…
*ahem*. Well. You know what I mean…
Thinking about sex with someone else isn’t cheating. If that was the case, men would be cheating on their wives/girlfriends/boyfriends about 100 times a day (women slightly less, but still…)! If you can’t have the odd moment of fantasy while glancing a handsome stranger, then what did God give us imaginations for?
I’ve often heard it argued by psychologists that an active fantasy life is actually the best way to avoid cheating, and a healthy thing to pursue. After all, what harm is there in it? If this was really cheating, surely girls would chuck their boyfriends for daring to buy a copy of FHM… or for walking down the road with their eyes open… or for having any form of sentient thought…
So please, in the name of all that is sensible and sane, don’t take away the purity of my occasional fantasy of Vince Vaughan tying my wrists to the bedstead and passionately beginning to…
*ahem*. Well. You know what I mean…
2 Comments:
I think you make many valid points, and im sure he thinks about other women when "engaged in the act"..we all do it..don't we?!
god I hope we all do! otherwise most people I know are deviants...
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